What can I do to not be so sad and depressed this afternoon?
I woke up at 6 o'clock this morning and I went to work at 7 this morning. It was over with at 3 this afternoon. I came home sat down and realized that for 5 years I have lived in this town and I can't seem to find any one that I have things in common with. Except my husband and we have a very happy relationship. But I am a hermit. I stay at home a lot by my self a whole lot. I can't stand working in public places like stores and I have only had one job for 2 years and have kept it and still have it. I didn't finish high school because I wanted to travel with my father who just passed away a year ago with cancer. I miss him and pretend to have coffee with him in the mornings and afternoons. I still miss him and pretend he is here all of the time with me to help me and guide me in life. His death was screwed up and he didn't have a funeral or a burial and his ex wife which he almost hated very much or disliked has his ashes from which I told them to embalm him and then I never called them back and then they just burnt him. I didn't have a way or the money to wichita Ks to help give him a proper burial. Well on with that story heres the next part which is the first part to my begenning of my 5 year journey of being alone. My father and I were traveling from Wichita Ks to northeast Texas and we broke down in a small Town in Oklahoma. I stayed and met a wonderful handsom man who is now my husband. We have no children I am a little mentally disabled but not on a check. I don't drive so I let other people drive for me. I am not a complete idiot or anything just a small hermit who has a husband who has friends that come over and they are my friends too but they just do not come over when I am here by my self because I am a female and all of his 2 friends or whatever are guys. We do get together and play video games all of the time everyday and stuff like that you know but I don't seem to have any friends at all really just my self. I have a job,husband, dead father, and this computer screen and my television but I am so depressed and anxiety filled I do not know what to do. I try to practice natural healing it helps. I don't want pills just a real true friend who will stay by my side through thick and thin. But it is very hard to find. I am married and love my husband very much. But I don't know how to make friends that are weird like me. Are there any hints or information that any one could give me cause if I have no friends with in a few months I feel like I will break down. If some one out there is reading this know that I mean every word of this and am writing with a voice as if I am talking to you. I need a friend not just some one to hang out with and use me for every thing I have in my house but some one to go places with , all of that stuff. Help.
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Answer 1 :
Honey, you are okay. From the way you wrote that question I can gather that you are extremely frazzled at the moment. Deep breaths are heaven for problems like that. I don't know how to get you friends because I don't know the people that live near you, but friends will come when they come. If you don't get out much your best bet is to talk to people when you go grocery shopping (my Mum does it all the time :). And if you want someone to be there for you through thick and thin, that's what your husband is for! He will be your strongest support. The absolute best thing you can do, though, is to be absolutely at peace with yourself. Most of the time a large chunk of our problems come when we are not happy with who we are as people. If you can be happy with who you are, it won't matter so much that a lot of things are going wrong for you because you are going right for you. Hope this helps :).
Answer 2 :
I suggest you have a try natural healing at http://www.healinghaven.com.au/IntregatedHealing.htm
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